讀后感 好父母好家教讀后感800字讀后感,Reaction to a book
以下是翻譯的英文版本內(nèi)容：
Good parents good tutor after reading part 1
Winter vacation, I carefully read the "good parents good tutor" book, suddenly love, because it gave me a great inspiration. The book tells us how parents should educate their children to become "I can do it" new age talents. My biggest experience is: to learn to communicate with children, to respect children, to encourage children, to give children a good example.
First of all, pay attention to the communication with the child. The book says: Into the child's heart, not by suspicion, surveillance, but by communication. Communication is the special spiritual need of today's children, especially the only child, who is eager to be understood and respected, and establish a partnership with their parents. The book writes: children are respected in learning to be a man, learn self-esteem. If a child is respected from an early age, he will learn self-respect and how to respect others. Think about it, if some parents come into the child's room and knock on the door, then the child will learn to knock when he enters your room. If some mothers never go through their children's things, then the children will not go through your things. Yes, to get your child to respect you, you have to respect your child first. Encourage your child and give him the courage to go forward. The book writes: The growth of children needs affirmation, and it is definitely the sunshine in the life of children. For every merit and justification of the child
The requirements should be fully affirmed and satisfied as far as possible, so that he can feel comfortable and strive upward.
Tolstoy once said that the whole of education, or 999 percent of education, comes down to the example, to the right and perfect parents. Parents, this most sacred profession makes me feel endless pressure on my body, so that I, like all parents, expect to be the best parents, and do my best to cultivate and educate children.
Communication, respect, encouragement, role model, these words are easy to say, but it is not easy to do, I will bear in mind, in the days I get along with my children, I will also believe in these and put into action. Only by communicating with children, can we find the problems of children, and be good at training and guidance; Only by respecting children, can children respect others and learn self-respect; Only by encouraging children, can children establish confidence and grow up healthily. When every child is born, it is equivalent to a blank sheet of paper, parents are the role models for children to learn, and children are also the abbreviation of parents. It is hoped that parents will first try to do a good job of themselves and set a good example for their children before educating their children. Source wWW.
Good parents good tutor after reading part 2
It is a great honor to have the opportunity to read the book "Good Parents and Good Tutors", which has benefited me a lot and given me a new and deeper understanding of parents' family education for their children. I have seen many shortcomings in the education of my children and need to learn and change.
Wei scholar gives us advice as parents through the chapters of small significance of tutoring, tutoring has no fixed method, educating children's morality first, learning guidance to be scientific, thousands of ways to become a talent, talking at length about hot issues, preventing tutoring from misunderstanding, celebrity teaching children from all sides, and using case analysis to answer questions and solve difficulties. Starting from family education as the first dye bath, the child is compared to three dye baths from birth to entering the social image. He put his children's home education in the first dye bath. Let us see the importance of family education. Human nature is good at the beginning, and the newborn child is like a piece of white paper, which is painted with different colors by us as parents.
I often hear many parents around me say that today's children are difficult to discipline, and worry about the discipline of children. In fact, we have never seriously considered our own problems as parents, is that we do not understand family education. Just staring at the kid, thinking it's the kid. Did not see their own shortcomings in the education of children. Today's society has made a great leap forward. Parents' love for their children is no longer about food and material supplies. We have already entered the comprehensive education of physical and mental science for children. Society is progressing, and our education for children should also keep pace with The Times. In life, study and work, we often use professional certificates to evaluate whether qualified, imagine, we are new parents, but did not participate in any training. Just teach them the way you think is good for them. Everyone's awareness is different, and the way, method and standard of children's education are not the same. The closeness of parent-child relationship with children is also different. So we should learn from more celebrity teachers the correct and scientific way to deal with every problem in every period of education for children. Get rid of the old way of beating and scolding rude education.
Teach a man to fish better than give him fish. Good habits accompany the child's life, and sound personality makes the child grow up happily. Educating children is a family's most important business. Education of children is no longer based on academic performance as the first, we should pay more attention to children's physical and mental health, usually the way to deal with people. Communicate with your children and give them praise and encouragement for what they do well in life and study. Give correct guidance and suggestions for the inadequacies. Learn more about your children's strengths and weaknesses. Know yourself and your enemy, education children is also, we should according to the specific situation of their children, with appropriate standards to ask them. Love son is not spoiled, learn to let go, learn to love son degree, strict and loose degree. Learn with your child and make progress together, so that you can become your child's qualified first teacher.
This book let me know that family education and school education are an indispensable part of every child's education, is an organic whole. When a parent loves his son, the plan is profound. Our love for our children is beyond doubt. We love our children, we should learn more knowledge of scientific education for our children, keep pace with The Times, let ourselves continue to grow, and become a qualified teacher and friend for our children. Take seriously the responsibility of raising children well. Lead by example, educate their children in a correct and scientific way, cultivate them into a three-perspective, physical and mental health, optimistic and positive people, so that children become qualified teenagers in the new era.
Good parents good tutor after reading article 3
I read Wei Shusheng teacher wrote "good parents good tutor" book, feeling very deep. Mr. Wei is a successful teacher, but also a magical class teacher, no matter what kind of class through his enlightenment can "rise from the dead". Students learn happily and grow healthily. The book "Good Parents and Good Tutor" is also Mr. Wei from the perspective of class teachers to answer parents in the education of children encountered various problems, and he is also a successful parent, his son graduated from high school in 2001, was admitted to Tsinghua University, published the first book in 2002. With respect for teacher Wei Shusheng, I read the book "Good Parents and Good Tutors" and gained very valuable teaching experience and parenting methods.
"Good parents and good Tutor" this book from how to criticize the child, educate the child's virtue first, cultivate the child's good habits, the criticism effect is good, for the family to share the burden can make the child stronger, should not give the child a tutor and other aspects of nearly 70 kinds of actual situation to start the tutor talk, for the majority of parents to give advice, answer questions and solve problems. It talks about the things that happen around us. Through real case analysis, we feel that the results of these small things that happen around us are different after handling under different viewpoints. It is really a practical and practical book. After reading it, I thought that in fact, home education and school education are an indispensable part of children's education, it is an effective integration, and many problems I encountered before can get answers from here.
This book of teacher Wei Shusheng provides many successful education cases to each parent, and uses a unique perspective from the child to be a good teacher and friend, how to criticize the education of children, how to cultivate children's good habits and other 70 kinds of actual situation to start a family talk, for many parents to give advice, answer questions and solve difficulties. Not only in the face of children's various problems, but also let me, as a teacher, understand from teacher Wei Shusheng's words how to face different problems of students, how to help parents to educate their children. Miss Wei pays special attention to protecting children's self-esteem. "In normal times, the use of soft-spoken comments reflects the attitude of the parents to the child's friendly consultation, and the result of this attitude is to make the child feel that the final decision is the result of his own thinking, and not forced on him by the parents," he said. Reading this, I am very ashamed, when students make mistakes, I sometimes can not control their emotions to loudly reprimand them, if my improper comments hurt the child's self-esteem, self-confidence, it is more than worth the loss. This book makes me reflect more deeply on my own education, what kind of education parents have, what kind of reply children will be. Using the energy of the child's heart to illuminate the child's world is obviously the most energy saving method. Soft-spoken criticism should put the child's heart in a position of equal communication, when the child is touched from the bottom of his heart, it will produce love for his parents.
As a parent and a teacher, whether it is now or in the future, whether it is at school or at home, I always have to remind myself to learn from Wei Shusheng teacher, regard students as their children, regard children as friends, and be a teacher who students like and a mother who children like silently.
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好父母好家教讀后感 篇1
寒假，我認(rèn)真研讀了《好父母好家教》一書，頓時(shí)愛(ài)不釋手，因?yàn)樗o了我很大的啟發(fā)。書中告訴我們作為父母應(yīng)該如何教育自己的孩子，使之成為“我能行”的新世紀(jì)人才。我最大的體會(huì)是：要學(xué)會(huì)和孩子溝通，要尊重孩子，要鼓勵(lì)孩子，要給孩子做好榜樣。
首先要注意和孩子的溝通。書中寫到：走進(jìn)孩子的心靈，不是靠懷疑、監(jiān)視，而是靠溝通。溝通，是今天的孩子，尤其是獨(dú)生子女特殊的精神需求，他們渴望被理解尊重，與父母建立伙伴關(guān)系。書中寫到：孩子是在被尊重中學(xué)會(huì)做人、學(xué)會(huì)自尊的。假如孩子從小就受到尊重，他便能懂得自尊，也會(huì)懂得怎樣去尊重別人。想一想，如果有的家長(zhǎng)進(jìn)孩子的房間敲門，那么孩子進(jìn)你的房間時(shí)就會(huì)學(xué)會(huì)敲門。如果有的媽媽從不亂翻孩子的東西，那么孩子也不會(huì)亂翻你的東西。是的，要讓孩子尊重你，你便要先尊重孩子。要鼓勵(lì)孩子，給他勇往直前的勇氣。書中寫到：孩子的成長(zhǎng)需要肯定，肯定是孩子生命中的陽(yáng)光。對(duì)于孩子的每一個(gè)優(yōu)點(diǎn)和正當(dāng)
要求，要充分肯定和盡量滿足，使他心情舒暢，一心向上。
托爾斯泰曾說(shuō)過(guò)：全部教育，或者說(shuō)千分之九百九十九的教育歸結(jié)到榜樣上，歸結(jié)到父母的端正和完善上。父母，這一最神圣的職業(yè)讓我感到身上無(wú)窮的壓力，使我像所有的父母一樣期望自己是最好的父母，盡自己所能，努力地培養(yǎng)、教育好孩子。
溝通、尊重、鼓勵(lì)、做榜樣，這幾個(gè)詞語(yǔ)說(shuō)說(shuō)容易，做起來(lái)實(shí)則不易，我會(huì)銘記在心，在我和孩子相處的日子里，也將信奉這幾條并付諸行動(dòng)。只有和孩子多溝通，才能發(fā)現(xiàn)孩子身上的問(wèn)題，并善于培養(yǎng)和引導(dǎo)；只有尊重孩子，才能讓孩子尊重別人，學(xué)會(huì)自尊；只有鼓勵(lì)孩子，才能使孩子樹立信心，健康成長(zhǎng)。每個(gè)孩子在剛出生的時(shí)候，等于是一張白紙，父母就是孩子學(xué)習(xí)的榜樣，孩子也是父母的縮寫。希望父母在教育孩子之前，首先努力做好自己，給孩子樹立一個(gè)好的榜樣。出處 wWW.
好父母好家教讀后感 篇2
十分榮幸有機(jī)會(huì)閱讀《好父母好家教》這本書，看了這本書讓我受益匪淺，對(duì)為人父母對(duì)孩子的家庭教育有了更新更深的認(rèn)知。看到了自己平時(shí)教育子女很多的不足和需要學(xué)習(xí)改變的地方。
魏書生通過(guò)家教事小意義大、家教有法無(wú)定法、教育子女德為先、學(xué)習(xí)指導(dǎo)要科學(xué)、成才之路萬(wàn)千條、熱點(diǎn)問(wèn)題縱橫談、防止家教進(jìn)誤區(qū)、名人教子面面觀幾大章給做為家長(zhǎng)的我們出謀劃策，用案例分析答疑解難。從家庭教育似第一道染缸開(kāi)始，把孩子出生到進(jìn)入社會(huì)形象的比喻為三道染缸。他把孩子的家庭教育放在第一個(gè)染缸。讓我們看到了家庭教育的重要性。人之初性本善，剛出生的孩子像一張白紙，被我們做父母畫上了不同的色彩。
經(jīng)常聽(tīng)到許多身邊的家長(zhǎng)說(shuō)現(xiàn)在的孩子難管教，為管教孩子焦慮發(fā)愁。會(huì)者不難，難者不會(huì)，其實(shí)我們從來(lái)沒(méi)有認(rèn)真的考慮我們做父母自身的問(wèn)題，是我們不懂家庭教育。只盯著孩子，覺(jué)得是孩子難管。沒(méi)有看到自己對(duì)教育孩子的不足。如今的社會(huì)早已大躍進(jìn)。父母對(duì)孩子的愛(ài)不再是溫飽和物質(zhì)的供給。早已進(jìn)入對(duì)孩子身心科學(xué)的全面教育。社會(huì)在進(jìn)步，我們對(duì)孩子的教育也要與時(shí)俱進(jìn)，跟上時(shí)代的步伐。在生活學(xué)習(xí)工作中，我們時(shí)常用專業(yè)證書來(lái)評(píng)價(jià)是否合格，試想，我們都是初為人父母，卻都沒(méi)有參加任何培訓(xùn)。只是憑借自認(rèn)為是對(duì)孩子有益的方法方式去教育他們。每個(gè)人的認(rèn)知度不同，對(duì)孩子教育的方式、方法、標(biāo)準(zhǔn)都不相同。與孩子的親子關(guān)系親密度也不同。所以我們應(yīng)該學(xué)習(xí)更多的名人老師對(duì)教育子女每個(gè)時(shí)段每個(gè)問(wèn)題的正確科學(xué)的處理方式。改掉已往以打罵，訓(xùn)斥粗魯?shù)慕逃绞健?/p>
授人以魚，不如授人以漁。良好的習(xí)慣伴隨孩子的一生，健全的人格讓孩子快樂(lè)的成長(zhǎng)。教育子女是一個(gè)家庭的重事。教育子女不再是以學(xué)習(xí)成績(jī)?yōu)榈谝唬覀儜?yīng)該更多的關(guān)心孩子的身心健康，平時(shí)為人處事的方法。多和孩子溝通，對(duì)他們生活學(xué)習(xí)做的好的地方給出表?yè)P(yáng)和鼓勵(lì)。做的不足之處給出正確的引導(dǎo)建議。要多了解自己的子女有哪些優(yōu)點(diǎn)，有哪些缺點(diǎn)。知己知彼百戰(zhàn)百勝，教育孩子也是，我們要根據(jù)自己孩子具體情況，用適度的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)去要求他們。愛(ài)子不是溺愛(ài)，學(xué)會(huì)放手，學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)子有度，嚴(yán)松有度。和孩子共學(xué)習(xí)共進(jìn)步，讓自己成為孩子合格的第一任老師。
這本書讓我知道了家庭教育和學(xué)校教育都是每個(gè)孩子教育不可缺失的部分，是一個(gè)有機(jī)整體。父母之愛(ài)子，則為之計(jì)深遠(yuǎn)。我們對(duì)子女的愛(ài)是毋庸置疑的。我們愛(ài)子女，就應(yīng)該多多學(xué)習(xí)科學(xué)教育子女的知識(shí)，與時(shí)俱進(jìn)，讓自己不斷成長(zhǎng)，成為子女合格的良師益友。認(rèn)真努力承擔(dān)起把子女教育好的責(zé)任。以身作則，用正確科學(xué)的方式教育自己的子女，把他們培養(yǎng)成三觀正，身心健康，樂(lè)觀積極向上的人，讓孩子成為新時(shí)代的合格少年。
好父母好家教讀后感 篇3
我拜讀了魏書生老師寫的《好父母好家教》一書，感觸很深。魏老師是一位成功的老師，更是一個(gè)神奇的班主任，無(wú)論什么樣的班級(jí)經(jīng)過(guò)他的點(diǎn)化都能“起死回生”。學(xué)生快樂(lè)的學(xué)習(xí)，健康成長(zhǎng)。《好父母好家教》這本書也正是魏老師從班主任的視角出發(fā)回答家長(zhǎng)們?cè)诤⒆咏逃兴龅降母黝悊?wèn)題，同時(shí)他也是一位成功的家長(zhǎng)，他的兒子2001年高中畢業(yè)后考入了清華大學(xué)，2002年出版了第一本書。懷著對(duì)魏書生老師的崇敬之情我閱讀了《好父母好家教》這本書，并從中獲得了非常有價(jià)值的教學(xué)經(jīng)驗(yàn)和育兒方法。
《好父母好家教》這本書從如何批評(píng)孩子、教育子女德為先、培養(yǎng)孩子的良好習(xí)慣、輕聲細(xì)語(yǔ)的批評(píng)效果好、為家庭分憂能使孩子更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)、該不該給孩子請(qǐng)家教等多個(gè)方面近七十種實(shí)際情況展開(kāi)家教漫談，為廣大家長(zhǎng)出謀劃策，答疑解難。談的就是發(fā)生在我們身邊的事情，通過(guò)真實(shí)的案例分析讓我們感覺(jué)到這些發(fā)生在自己身邊的小事情在不同觀點(diǎn)支配下進(jìn)行處理后其結(jié)果是不同的，真是一本實(shí)在又實(shí)用的書籍。看完之后想到其實(shí)家教和學(xué)校教育一樣都是孩子教育不可缺少的一部分，它是一個(gè)有效的整合體，我以前所碰到的不少問(wèn)題都能從這里獲得答案。
魏書生老師的這本書向每位家長(zhǎng)提供了許多成功的教育案例，并用獨(dú)特的角度從做孩子的良師益友，如何批評(píng)教育孩子，如何培養(yǎng)孩子良好的習(xí)慣等七十種實(shí)際情況展開(kāi)家教漫談，為眾多家長(zhǎng)出謀劃策，答疑解難。不僅面對(duì)孩子出現(xiàn)的各種問(wèn)題，而且也讓作為教師的我從魏書生老師的言語(yǔ)中了解了應(yīng)該如何面對(duì)學(xué)生的不同問(wèn)題，應(yīng)該如何幫助家長(zhǎng)共同教育孩子的良方。魏老師特別重視保護(hù)孩子的自尊心。他說(shuō)：“平時(shí)，采用輕聲細(xì)語(yǔ)的批語(yǔ)方式，體現(xiàn)出一種父母對(duì)孩子友好商量的姿態(tài)，這種姿態(tài)的結(jié)果是讓孩子感到最終做出決定是自己思考的結(jié)果，并不是父母強(qiáng)加于他的。”讀到此，我非常慚愧，在學(xué)生犯錯(cuò)誤的時(shí)候，我有時(shí)也會(huì)控制不住自己的情緒去大聲訓(xùn)斥他們，如果由于我不當(dāng)?shù)呐Z(yǔ)方式傷了孩子的自尊心、自信心，那可是得不償失了。這本書讓我更深刻的反省自己的教育，家長(zhǎng)寓什么樣的教育，孩子的回復(fù)就會(huì)是什么樣子的。用孩子心靈深處的能源去照亮孩子的世界，顯然是最節(jié)省能源的方法。輕聲細(xì)語(yǔ)的批評(píng)，應(yīng)更多的把孩子的心處于一種平等交流的位置上，當(dāng)孩子從內(nèi)心深處受到觸動(dòng)，隨之產(chǎn)生的是對(duì)父母的愛(ài)。
作為一名家長(zhǎng)同時(shí)也是一位老師，不管是現(xiàn)在還是將來(lái)，不管是在校還是在家，我時(shí)刻都要提醒自己向魏書生老師學(xué)習(xí)，把學(xué)生當(dāng)成自己的孩子，把孩子當(dāng)成朋友，和風(fēng)細(xì)雨，潤(rùn)物無(wú)聲地做一名學(xué)生喜歡的老師，孩子喜歡的母親。
好父母好家教讀后感